In popular TV Shows such as “Gossip girl” and “Weeds” which have had a strong impact on youth pop culture, threesomes have been a real topic of conversation for the couples; besides research indicates an increasing number of people have tried threesomes.
How to organize a threesome
One of the biggest objections to threesomes is usually that it will become an addiction and after the first threesome more will be craved and indulged in, finally leading to wanting to realize all fantasies, degenerating into perversion. In some cases threesomes are isolated episodes, linked to an evening of too much drinking or an attempt at reviving the relationship.
Let’s talk about it
Talk about the reasons why you want to do it: to indulge in a practice that your partner does or doesn’t like? to revive your relationship? to have sex with someone of the same sex? to make your old fantasy come true? simply because it’s fun? Threesomes have a higher chance of success if the goals are common.
Choosing the third party
This could be perhaps the most delicate and complex task. Setting up a threesome is an art, like organizing a dinner party. One too many or the wrong guest and the whole atmosphere is compromised. According to sexologist Emily Morse, it would be ideal to find a single person in your group of friends with whom you are not yet too familiar and who is particularly open to the idea. Talk to them about it and then create the conditions, including the idea of a little alcohol to release the inhibitions.
Sex toys and accessories
Threeway play is definitely more interesting but a little complex. Never forget, in order: condoms, water lubricant and/or anal lubricant, massage oil and/or kissable for the body and then, depending on the degree of complexity and involvement, bondage accessories, anal toys, vibrators, clitoris suckers and dildo strapons.
Have fun!
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