Unconditional love is love in it’s purest form. Love without conditions, expectations or attachments. Unconditional love cannot be defined through actions or words, it is a feeling, an energy that has to be felt to be able to truly be understood.

“Love has the power to heal and transform, overcoming any emotion. True love is infinite with its expression, transcending limits and experiences.” Through childhood, life experiences and society we have adopted a distorted perception of love. Some people use the term ‘Love’ to express a conditional feeling or to receive an exchange of affection. We often use it to give or receive validation for something or in some circumstances, to receive validation and prove to ourselves that we are loveable. If used from a place of insecurity, love cannot be felt in its true form, so creates a distorted version of love that comes with conditions, attachments and expectations. This may lead us to question the quality of love and whether love is even real. It also affects how we receive love, how we love ourselves and how we give and share it with other people.

We’ve all been in relationships, friendships or had trauma or negative experiences that have caused us to question the love we have for ourselves and others. This impacts our life in both unconscious and conscious ways that we sometimes don’t even realise. Love is the driving force in all things. When we lack real love, we search for it, we can adopt addictions, negative or harming behaviours and actions. We can become depressed, lost and obsessive. In most cases, it’s the lack of love that we have received in our lives that has driven us to these places and actions. Everyone is looking for love. Real love, unconditional love. The love that our soul and very being was born from and consists of. The love that is all around us but we are sometimes unable to feel due to walls we have put up ourselves.

When we have been through traumas and negative experiences our perception of love becomes distorted. We then tend to shut ourselves off and reject love to protect ourselves from the pain that we have experienced. Or sometimes we create reoccurring patterns, subconsciously seeking out our distorted perceptions of love, as this is all we know. The pain, betrayal and rejection that we have felt within these circumstances and experiences cause us to shut off of our connections to our inner-selves, our true emotions and being and close our hearts. It also affects our willingness to be open with our feelings around others as we are afraid of being vulnerable. When we don’t or feel like we can’t love or accept ourselves, we seek that acceptance and love externally and put ourselves in a position where our worthiness is validated from the actions of others. This can leave us feeling unloved, uncared for, unworthy, unsupported, resentful and deprived of love and understanding. A lot of us adopt the Victim archetype which leaves us subconsciously gravitating, aligning and calling in more experiences that will fit into this personality. Our thoughts, words and energy are so much more powerful then we realise.

This year is all about coming back to ourselves. Our true selves, and reconnecting with that part of us that is pure unconditional love and light. The part of us that knows the higher perspective of all things and all experiences that we have chosen to go through (because even the bad experiences, on some level, we have chosen, whether it’s a subconscious choice or conscious choice). We go down the paths that teach us the greatest lessons to grow and evolve. Sometimes these can be traumatic but in every experience, we learn a lesson that we are able to grow from. We learn to release pain, people, recreated patterns or limiting beliefs that have kept us stagnant for possibly generations. And we learn to love ourselves that little bit more every time. Love ourselves and pick ourselves up, see our worth, strength, passion, drive and our beauty within.

It is no coincidence that you have stumbled across this blog. You have been guided to find it and read the words. Right now your soul is seeking that unconditional love and forgiveness. The Universe is bringing us to experiences, that will release old emotions and pain that we have been holding onto and been holding within our bodies, minds and DNA for years and possibly even generations, both on a personal and collective level. We are now being pushed to acknowledge these and heal and release them. Hence why you may be finding yourself in overwhelming situations, feeling unbalanced, lost or feeling like things keep going wrong. “When it rains it pours, right?” Take a step back so you can see the higher perspective of things. These things are just coming up for you to finally release these outdated patterns, energies and paradigms. Try to focus on the outcome you’d like and that inner light you have within. Try to not judge what’s coming up and happening and allow yourself to feel whatever emotions are rising. Sit in them without judgement or attaching any stories and allow them to pass through you. I promise, once they have released, you will feel so much lighter.

This is a deep healing process that we are going through, try to not put conditions or control the outcome, everything is happening as it needs to. This is a time for our heart to open and realise our deep inner truth. It is our process to come back to the path of unconditional love, back home to ourselves. When we have no more walls, we are able to truly open to the power of Unconditional Love and unity in all forms. This is a time to redefine the meaning of love. It is the time to experience real unconditional love, love without expectations, conditions or attachments. Love in it’s purest form.

If you would like help to move past any trauma you may have experienced and to learn tools to help you reconnect with your inner light and divine feminine being and step back into your Goddess power, please visit my website: www.celestialbliss.co.uk Or contact me through my email [email protected] for a chat.

Sending you Unconditional Love & Divine Light….