December 20, 2021

6 Ways to activate your Sexual Energy & use it in Everyday Life. {Adult}


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Sexual energy is the primal creative energy: when making love and creating a baby, you are using sexual energy to create life.

The Taoists and those who practice tantra recognized that someone who actively creates more sexual energy inside their body is also more fundamentally energetic in general.

Think of sexual energy as sexual sensations in motion—it could feel tingly, warm, and expansive. When it moves, there is an altogether different but similar sensation, which you can think of as sexual energy.

As sexual beings, there is so much vibrancy and potency and life inside of us. It is our divine birthright to create our desires. We are powerful—our reason for being on the planet is to create a life that is fulfilling and abundant. The more we inhabit our sexual energy, the more we will self-actualize, meaning we become the most authentic version of ourselves.

Your sexuality is an energetic portal to open to the universe. Since sex creates new life, it can transform and heal painful traumatic experiences and manifest your deepest desires. This can happen when you activate your sexuality as the creator of your own world. You can unblock and unleash the pure flow of your life force to every area of your life.

You can integrate your sexual energy into everything you do.

If you are disassociated from your genitals, you are cut off from the natural flow of sexual energy. When you are more connected to your sexuality and genitals, you are more open to creating what you desire. So when you are expressing yourself in the world and show up in your life, the universe never fails to respond. The energy comes back to you in the form of abundance and wealth and all the things you want. This is the great universal exchange: the more you get in touch with your sexual energy—your creative blueprint, the essence of who you are—the more you get in touch with yourself, and the more your life becomes an extension of you.

When you activate your sexuality, you turn on. You activate it to be the divine designer of things, and this magnetizes opportunities, people, ideas, and wealth to you.

It’s important to note that your sexuality does not require a partner; it’s the relationship you have with sex with yourself, with your sexuality, which is your power. It incorporates your feelings of pleasure, of being connected to your own body, and the freedom to express yourself sexually.

Your sexual energy is your creative genius.

When we begin to express our sexual energy and channel it out into the world, we naturally gravitate to things that represent the truest parts of ourselves. This applies to careers and manifesting money, too. If you are feeling financially stuck and unproductive, if you’re having blocks with money or creativity, or if your business is stagnant, you’re not getting new ideas, and you’re feeling lethargic, you are probably feeling sexually stuck too.

You can find and embody the frequency of wealth when you remember your own magnificence and unlimited power within that creates miracles. This is something you need to really feel in your body, by loving who you truly are. When you do this, you start to create out of joy rather than out of need.

Activating your sexual energy is key to this. Your sexual power is your life force—pulsating through your body, vibrating in every cell—and it’s this energy that brings life to your cells. It’s about activating this power so that you become magnetic to your desires. We can reconnect to the sacredness of the self by knowing we are a gift to the world—and so is what we create. The closer we get to the truth of our gifts, the more money we will make.

We hunger for deep, rich experiences in life, and this is why some people seek heightened experiences outside of themselves, using alcohol, weed, psychedelics, or other substances. But we can get much higher and deeper and have more incredible inspiration through our own energy than anything else. By using our sexual energy, we can enrich our wealth and health, our high levels of genius, and elevate our spiritual experiences.

Tantric sex is an amazing way to use your sexual energy, connecting you to high levels of sexual ecstasy, creativity, and consciousness.

Six tips on how to use your sexual energy:

1. Start doing things that give you joy and bliss if you don’t already. They can be simple things—but make time for them.

2. Have regular sex. If not with a partner, then you can self-pleasure. Set up weekly sex dates, or even several times a week. This energy needs to be kept moving, or it will get stuck and dwindle.

3. Start focusing on your sexual energy and visualize it circulating at your base chakra (at the bottom of your spine). You might start to feel turned on or a slight tingling in this area. Now, think about what you want to create—it could be wealth, a creative pursuit, a career opportunity, a new relationship, or reviving an existing one—and continue to visualize the swirling energy at your base chakra. Then, move it with your mind to your solar plexus (the stomach area). Here’s where you visualize your goal and intention—feel how it empowers and uplifts you.

4. Use your breath. By learning to control your breath, you can use your sexual energy to reach dimensions that are much more powerful and fulfilling for you and your partner. Breathe deep and full into your lower belly and genitals—this makes pleasure rise more slowly and deeply in your body, and you are able to experience deep, full-body orgasms.

Instead of letting sensations build up in your genitals, move it with your breath and awareness throughout your body. From the genitals, move it up the back of your spine and down the front of your body, and keep looping it like this with an intention—it could be to feel more pleasure and aliveness, whatever you want to create in your sexual experience. You can use your mind or your breath to gently disperse the buildup of sexual sensation out of your penis or clitoris and move it throughout your body. At first, it might feel like your orgasms are less intense. But over time, as your system adjusts, you’ll discover a massive wellspring of orgasmic pleasure that is much greater than what happens with only genital sensations.

5. Here is a practice to activate and use your sexual energy, either by yourself or with a partner.

>> Sitting down, you are going to breathe in and out of your mouth (if doing this with a partner, sit opposite one another).

>> Next, rock your pelvis back and forth and breathe in and out of your chakras. Starting with the base chakra (at the bottom of your spine), breathe for at least 30 seconds. Then, following the same pattern, breathe through your sacral chakra (just below your belly button), then your solar plexus (your stomach area), then your heart center, then your throat center, then in and out of your third eye (in between your eyebrows), and lastly the crown chakra (the top of your head).

>> Keep your breathing deeply and fully; make sounds if you feel like it, as this helps move the energy even more.

6. Another breathing practice you can try before you make love is cosmic breathing.

>> Inhale from your pelvic floor up to the top of your head—this can be done alone or with a partner (sitting opposite each other).

>> Then, you are going to exhale from the crown of your head up into the universe. This type of breathing allows you to enter a sensitized and more alive state so you can feel sexual experiences much more deeply. If you leave sexual energy just in your penis or your clitoris, your pleasure and orgasm can only spread so far. It’s the difference between feeling orgasmic pleasure in your genitals and feeling each cell in your body pulsing with orgasmic intensity.


Sexual energy is magical, helping us to create the life we want, to express our gifts with the world, and to experience an epic sex life where there are no limitations on what we desire. So, keep connecting with your sexual life force and dance in the flow of abundance.

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