Smiles come easily, and her eyes shine with light.

She speaks her feelings directly and with astuteness. Her posture transmits confidence and dignity. Her beauty and her personal power are integrated. People comment that there’s a radiance or “glow” about her.

Perhaps, it is a result of deepening into self-acceptance and choosing to live as love. Whatever the reason, we will take notice if we slow down enough to see her.

In the media, she’s sometimes referred to as the “sexy-over-50” woman. In my experience, it is not age-related. I see it in persons who have come through a spiritual fire and are no longer enamored with the mundane.

Radiance is not age-dependent. Sexy has to do with openness and flow of energy more than “parts” or looks. It’s less about years and more about how a person lives inside their own skin. It’s about how sure they are of who and what they are.

A smile can be sexy. A confident, knowing smile is more sexy.

Raising a family, growing a business, and seeing parents age matures anyone, and these experiences help us figure out what works for us and what doesn’t. My partner and I have chosen each other from a deep, self-informed place. There is a “softening of spirit” that enables a quality of profound devotion.

The Great Clock of Life is ticking for all of us, and as we grow older, the attitude of “carpe diem” (or “carpe noctem”) takes on increased bearing.

Nothing here is meant to imply that younger women aren’t attractive and great to be with. However, a young, physically attractive woman who is guarded or manipulative with her sexuality is far less sexy than an older woman whose energy flows naturally. The woman who offers her heart wide and allows pleasure to move her is stunning to be with.

In my experience, every woman is radiant when she accesses her pleasure. Awesome radiant love that yearns to express is what each woman is at her core.

Acknowledge and bow to love and devotional trust when you experience it.

Beauty is something I see, and radiance is something I feel. I’m referring to the beauty that comes from fine proportion and form. Radiance is a glow that warms my spirit as the sun warms my body.

I’m not fundamentally different than other men; it’s just that I’ve been exposed to the sheer, uninhibited pleasure and power of the goddess, and it awakened me.

The woman who has spent decades yearning for a trustable, present man with whom to offer her full devotion is less inclined to settle for less than someone who is deserving of her heart. The woman who brings her own deep pleasure as a gift for her beloved to feel, worship, and behold—such a woman is agelessly sexy.

She can serve without demeaning herself. She presents herself as a devotional gift.

A woman like that will rise into love with her chosen intimate partner rather than “fall in love.” In that type of togetherness, each person can inspire the other to bring forth their best self.