4. In this human experience the reason why we desire any person, place, or thing is because of how we THINK we will FEEL in the having of it.
Everything we desire externally is an indicator of how want to feel internally. Humans have been programmed to believe that our internal is a reflection of our external. The opposite is true. As within, so without.
When you make a purchase, take a moment and ask yourself, ‘how will this purchase make me feel?” For example, you purchase a new car. How does having this new car make you FEEL? Do you feel safer, faster, cooler, accomplished, validated, joyful?
There is no good or bad feeling. There is no right answer. The magic is in the noticing and the naming of the feeling.
Why is this magical? Because noticing how you think you will feel in the having of the new car, allows you to tune into the FEELING you are trying to create for yourself.
You can feel safe and fast and cool and accomplished and validated and joyful with or without the new car because it’s not the new car that creates those feelings. It’s your THOUGHTS about the having of the new car that create those FEELINGS.
Humans can have everything they desire. The trick is to tune into the FEELING they desire to feel.
We create our external from our internal. This is a non-negotiable.
How we FEEL internally, creates how we feel externally.
How we FEEL is directly correlated to what we THINK.
Notice what you think.
Notice what you feel.
Notice what you THINK you want to FEEL.
Notice. Notice. Notice.