As a sex worker I’ve become increasingly obsessed with the idea of being a unicorn. A unicorn is basically a couples third partner, someone who adds spice to their lives.

I’ve been people’s unicorn before and its hard work. You have to communicate frequently with both partners, make sure everyone is comfy cozy with the activities and environment.

Another issue is that you have to get tested more regularly, especially if the couple is having sex with other partners. It’s scary thinking of what STI’s could be passed, but with proper care and attention to details the sex can be incredible.

The first time I was a unicorn for someone it didn’t go well. I was nervous and the couple seemed nervous too. We took shots to ease the tension and immediately started making out and making love to one another. It was fun at first, but I couldn’t tell if the couple was into me or not. When we were done, they tossed me my clothes and told me to get out.

The second time I was a unicorn it was way more fun and exciting. I was with a couple that I had been friends with for some time. We were making out, sensual towards each other in a way I had never experienced before.

I loved making love to my friends and the cuddles afterward were phenomenal. We had chemistry and it got me hooked on the idea of being a third.

Shortly after I dated a married couple who I adored at the time. They were fun in bed, had interesting fetishes and hobbies. Unfortunately, they wanted a lot of time and effort that I couldn’t give.

Being their lover, I was more than just a unicorn I was a third partner. I was a friend. I was sad when it ended, but now I realize being a unicorn is underrated. It’s great when it works, but terrifying when it doesn’t.

There’s a lot of tension that can arise from couples and couples’ privilege is a real thing. They talk about you when you’re not around and to each other when you message privately. They have a lot of control in which direction the relationship heads.

Part of being a unicorn means they take care of you, but it also means you have to give up a lot of yourself to be with them. It can be fun but challenging. If you’re considering being a unicorn, I would just suggest getting to know your couple beforehand so that if any problems arise you know you can talk and work things out for the better.

Being a unicorn is fun and rewarding when you’re with the right couple. I hope you have fun and happy hunting!