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A post shared by Rose Ayuna (@rose.ayuna) on May 27, 2019 at 8:11pm PDT

There are so many ways in which we can make love.

Space and possibilities are endless.

There is so much more than sexual penetration.

We look into each other’s eyes, and we deeply connect. 

We breathe together.

We meditate together.

We touch gently for hours, and we take each other in fully as the most precious beings on earth. 

We cuddle for hours.

We massage each other in a loving, caring, sensual, and sexy way.

We create sex(y) rituals. 

We dance and sing evenings long.

We just lie together and feel super turned on without physically touching each other, just letting the energy flow through and between us.

Love making to me is also taking time to honor and appreciate each other.

Telling and showing what we love about each other. 

We listen deeply and welcome fears and feelings of pain into our sacred love making space. 

All of these experiences deeply nourish me and can have the same level of depth, intimacy, and pleasure in it as having penetration sex for hours or days, which I also love.

I just want to point out the many ways in which we can make love. 

I used to think that being turned on always has to lead to an end goal—to penetration and to orgasms. 

In my current relationship, I learned that it doesn’t have to be this way.

Lots of sacred sexuality training and practices expanded my vision of lovemaking, and I learned to become even more orgasmic without having penetration sex.

At the same time, my partner holds an amazing container for me where I feel deeply respected and honored when I say no and when I say yes. We both deeply feel to only having penetration when we both feel a 100 percent yes. 

When we do choose to have sex, it’s coming from such a deep, truthful place. 

How amazing to be fully received in a yes, right? I wouldn’t want to have sex with someone that doesn’t feel a complete yes. Luckily, my partner doesn’t either. 

Since I know I can make love in so many ways, life just became so much more beautiful.

This is what I love so much about my relationship. And about committing deeply to a life together. 

We are both so open to new ways of connecting and meeting each other. When we go beyond the passion and thrill of the beginning phase of relating there is another truly magical space that opens up for us. 

We are now together for nearly two years and the passion and love between us just keeps growing and deepening every day. One of the most touching things I learned is to always see my partner through new eyes like we are meeting for the first time. 

I keep being amazed by the depth and beauty and variety of experiences that open up if I really meet him in the moment and forget all that I think I know about him. 

We don’t take each other for granted and that we don’t expect the other to fulfill our needs. 

I wholeheartedly wish this for everyone.

This is why I am so passionate to share this with you and to guide people in creating a beautiful relationship.

To me, there is nothing more fulfilling then sharing and experiencing life together.

And this is possible for everyone.