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It’s cuffing season, baby, and now’s a better time than ever to see what the universe has in store for your love life.
With the sun in Libra position, we can all channel our inner social butterflies to reel in a cuffing buddy to dream up romantic fantasies with by the fireplace. Perhaps a scenic walk to soak in the fall foliage? Or something a bit spicier (minus the pumpkin)—like greeting each other with nothing but slippers on after a long work day, and a sexy toy in tote.
Speaking of happy-hour-happy-endings, now’s the time to lean into any frisky feelings you’re having. Grab something sultry for your partner that helps answer the question Libra’s are most likely to ask: what do you really want your sex life to look like?
By the way, there’s a reason for that extra li’l sexual charge that you’re sensing. Mars is in retrograde (don’t panic, this is a good thing) and you’re feeling the transfer of action, aggression, and sexual passion as it travels out to join the outer planets.
What does this mean, exactly?
It’s time to confront what’s been under the surface, and embrace change. Awareness is key to the shift you’re feeling in Mars, and it’s begging you to make friends with the ways you’ve internalized shame about your body and your right to pleasure.
No matter who, or what, lands in front of you this season, return home to your body. The time to channel your inner power through exploring your sexuality is now, and you’ll feel more empowered than ever.
Forget battery-powered, this purring, rumbly motor feeling that powers Pom is something to behold >>
Prioritizing pleasure and creating space for yourself and your partner that’s free of judgement will spark a momentum that’ll keep you both feeling sexually satisfied all Libra season long.
If you’re seeking more direction (than Mars is right now) for how to maximize your sexy time this season, look no further than our favorite pleasure providers, Dame. They have something in store for each sign to ensure that Libra season is your sexiest one yet.
Libra (September 23-October 22): Step on top of the pedestal where you belong, because this season is yours, Libra. The birthday energy has you reflecting deeply about your needs, wants, desires, and the type of person you want to be. What are your fantasies? What kind of partner do you want? What kind of partner can you be? The best thing you can do is focus on pleasing yourself, and show up as one happy comer—err, camper—for everyone else. The toy for you? The Pom. It’s flexible enough to fit whatever you and your partner dream up, and it’s sure to slap a huge grin on your face before they even bring out your birthday cake.
Scorpio (October 23-November 21): This season is all about traveling inward, Scorpio. You’ve been feeling frustrated, and you’re not so sure of the source just yet. Could it possibly be that your s/o left a sink full of dishes out again? Tap into your intuition, and your sexual hunger, and let go a little bit so the answers can, um, come to you. The toy for you? The Arc. It’s all about exploration and finding out what really hits the spot.
Sagittarius (November 22-December 21): You’ve got your mind on bigger issues this month, Sagittarius. And while the affairs of the world deserve your attention, focusing on what’s in front of you will bring you closer to the answers you’re seeking. Clarity and organization can be sexy as f*ck, and it’s time for you to put your energy into those little details. The toy for you? The Fin. It’s compact and versatile for any position that pleases you most, and it won’t add to the clutter you’re trying to get rid of.
Capricorn (December 22-January 20): You’re geared up for expansion this month, Capricorn. Think big, dream big, and put yourself out there to meet new people. You never know, your forever relationship could come your way if you do. Take time to prioritize your pleasure in the quiet moments in between speed-dating with the Pom. It’ll bend to your every whim (so you can get a break from doing that for other people for once.)
Aquarius (January 21-February 18): Loosen the reins a bit this month, Aquarius. You like to be in control, and uncertainty freaks you out. It’s time to evaluate what you actually can influence in your life, like pleasure with your partner. This time, though, let them lead. Try the Alu arousal serum and allow its tingly sensations to take you to sexual heights you’ve never experienced before.
Pisces (February 19-March 20): Envision your dream partner this month, Pisces. What does a safe, fulfilling, romantic relationship look like to you? This season is about connecting to your intuition and attracting the sex life of your dreams. When you spend that time honoring your desires, you’ll know exactly what to do when things heat up with a partner. Get yourself a partner-optional Eva to test out what feels best when you’re solo, and you’ll be pretty much guaranteed to reach the big “O” when you use it with that dreamboat of yours.
Aries (March 21-April 19): Love on your sultry self this month, Aries. With Mars changing up its direction, you have a chance to pivot away from people and things that you were never really invested in, anyway. Channel that redirected energy into yourself, and get a multi-sensory experience with the Arc. With both external and internal stimulation, you’ll get the taste of the unique paces and sensations that your body is craving right now.
Taurus (April 20-May 20): You’ve got creative energy, and it’s time to put that into sexual play this month, Taurus. You thrive on the anticipation of the big “O” at the end of the tunnel, and you don’t mind having a whole lot of fun on the way there. Switch things up with the Alu arousal serum to get you started, and allow your body to savor the sweet sensations it gives you on the way to the quality climax you’ve had on your mind all damn day.
Gemini (May 21-June 20): Home is at the top of mind this month, Gemini. You’ll be the first one to grab that cardigan and cuppa fall coffee before snuggling up with your cuffing teammate. Listen to the cues your partner is giving you, and take them as a sign to travel inward for reflection. Get yourself a Fin to maximize your “O”ptions without adding any clutter to your homey space.
Cancer (June 21-July 22): You know what your partner needs before they do, Cancer. That makes you a great lover, but sometimes it has you putting your sexual needs on the back burner. This season is all about communication for you, and speaking your desires out loud, even if it feels scary. You deserve it, girl! Play with the Eva solo first, and let your partner know what tickles your fancy so they can take things to the next level (finally).
Leo (July 23-August 22): You’ve got a bit of social burnout, Leo. This summer has asked a lot of you, with many energetic highs and lows, and you’re ready for a damn break already. Don’t feel guilty about taking much-needed time to yourself. Your toy of choice? Get a breath of fresh Aer with soothing, stimulating, toe-curling sensations that mimic some high-quality head so you can finally clear yours.
Virgo (August 23-September 22): You’re still riding high after your birthday, Virgo—as you should be. Embrace all that’s unique and loveable about you (you really are adorable). You get a rush from supporting your people, but this time it’s about receiving. It’s your turn to be pleasured by your partner, and they’re going to gladly take the time to give you some good loving. The toy for you? The Eva. This’ll give you an excuse to let your lover take the driver’s seat this time.
There’s a pleasure-maximizing message and tool for everyone, no matter what lies ahead, and the most important thing to remember is that you deserve to put your sex life first this season.
Seriously, there’s no reason to wait any longer to fall in love with your sweet self.