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April 13, 2022

The process of finding the right person for us

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Finding the right person is not easy. It took a long process and not in a short time to be able to find those who are truly destined for us. It is possible that we will encounter repeated failures in the process. It could be that before we found it, we were already frustrated and stressed because of that.

We can have many friends but if we are really upset, sad or feeling down then it means we can share our burden to them? I don’t think so

Being with the right person, someone who makes us comfortable, calm and able to pour out all our feelings to them without needing to be afraid.

We will not be afraid to be judged, we can express ourselves fully and so will that person to us. We can both be ourselves without having to fake ourselves.

The right person means they accept us as we are with all our flaws. They will be with us because they sincerely want to be with us, be by our side, spend time and live life with us day by day.

Good days, bad days and normal days are lived together day after day and the most important thing is mutual understanding with each other. Work hand in hand if one of you is having problems.

Strengthen and forgive each other between the two so that the relationship can last a long time, whatever the relationship.

If we haven’t found the right person yet, be patient. Let’s just say we are still in the process for it. Even if we fail again now, think of it as a life lesson so that in the future we can be much more careful in our actions.

Being able to be with someone who is right for us is the most beautiful gift that God has given us.

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