What hurts the most is knowing that people only want to be with you because of their needs. Not because they really want to be with you. They don’t realize that what they are doing is hurting other.

We did our best, gave all our effort but they didn’t appreciate it. Using other only for our own sake so that we feel comfortable without thinking about that person’s situation is very unwise.

You want them to always be with you but can you also give the same thing? You want to get attention but can you also give the same attention? You want them to accept you but can you also accept them with all their flaws? You don’t want them to be fake but can you be yourself for them?

Don’t hurt others if you don’t want to get hurt by others. Everything is reciprocal and learn to understand. Sometimes it’s hard, yes I agree, but wouldn’t it be much better to lower our egos and learn to understand all of that so that the relationship lasts, whatever the relationship is.

I will still say the same thing, in a relationship, whatever the relationship is, it consists of two people and each must work together so that the relationship can run smoothly. Don’t expect them to keep accept you while you can’t do the same for them. Everything has a limit and they have a limit to their patience.

Regret always comes later and the feelings will be very painful especially when you find out that you the one that caused the relationship to fail. Not everyone will be able to give you a second chance so if you are given the chance, give the best of you.