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July 26, 2022

The Revised Human Being Rule Book: Rule #10

10.  In each present moment, you are either the CREATOR or VICTIM.

In this human experience, in every present moment, we are either the creator of our experience or the victim of our experience.

The distinction between creator and victim is OUR THOUGHTS.

Most humans desire to only feel good.

When humans feel bad, they tell themselves that something has gone wrong.  Often, they look at their external to locate the source of their bad feeling and determine that they feel bad because of something outside them.  This is victim mentality.

Creator mentality allows for both the good and the bad.

Every human being’s experience is 50% good and 50% bad.  This is a non-negotiable.

Feeling good and bad and all the feelings in between is part of being a human being.

What if nothing has gone wrong when you feel bad?

What if allowing the good feelings and the bad feelings is key to having a more enjoyable human experience?

Creators allow.

Victims disallow.

When you disallow all the bad feeling you are the victim.

When you notice what is and allow it to be there, regardless of how it feels, you begin creating.

Creator FEELS SO MUCH BETTER than victim.

** Programming is strong with this one so if you read this and feel yucky, ALLOW it.  Ask yourself, if it is true that nothing has gone wrong when I feel anxious or unworthy or less than or bad, how could I allow those feelings instead of buffering or distracting myself from them?  There is SO MUCH POWER in allowing what you feel to be there.  No human being has ever died from feeling a feeling.  It feels like you are going to die, but you won’t die.

Pinky promise.

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