This post is Grassroots, meaning a reader posted it directly. If you see an issue with it, contact an editor.
If you’d like to post a Grassroots post, click here!

1.3
July 7, 2021

Relationships: Beyond the Labels that we Put on them.

Hearted by

Most of the times, I feel amazed how people define relations.

I think most of us are stressing ourselves to answer the question about what relationships are truly about. Apparently, it requires some sort of a defined cutoff to be labelled as a qualified normal human feel.

The basis of this is that one does not have to prove how they perceive their relationships. Neither to the self, nor the other person, and never to the world.

Take a pause and think: you don’t have to limit something which helps to reveal hidden scrambled parts that nourish one’s soul.

Or think of it this way: would you like to put a limitation on something which is supposed to be your source of happiness?

The answer is “NO.”

Then why are we all always trying to put a label on relationships and limiting the bonding which nurture our life, shapes it, give it some meaning and above all enriches our soul?

I think we all have the wrong idea when it comes to how one can perceive their relations. One has to understand that one can’t own something or someone. Ever. It’s just a human-made formula to define the existence of something/someone and how things may last.

The truth is that one can’t rule over something which are intangible, undefined, unexplainable, and immortal.

Definitely, one can put a label to it, but it is not how it’s governed. You can’t restrict a feeling by keeping it within the boundaries of a tagline. A feeling is meant to be explored with an open mind, meant to travel places which can’t ever be confined within boundaries.

To this all of us can agree that we can’t stop this, no matter what. And even if we make an attempt, this will lead to a mess on the long run. It is always going to have some part of it left within us, which most of the times one will not be able to understand, and will always juggle with it every single time.

From my perception, all these things don’t require some certificate or a label. Feelings are already in their purest form. The thing that stays with us is the magic of those moments, that pure touch necessary to keep our soul real.

That’s the form of electric energy, or in lame terms, the chemistry which can’t be altered. Dare to take a flight full of takeoffs and highjacks. Be someone who makes dreadful yet cheerful announcements. Do not re-adjust. Take that flight because you know you love the clouds, this may be cloudy and even rain sometimes, but that’s all about having what you love. Flight is important, so the clouds are. Never miss One.

Read 1 Comment and Reply
X

Read 1 comment and reply

Top Contributors Latest

Shalini Agrawal  |  Contribution: 700