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February 20, 2022

Don’t run away from responsibility

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Learn to accept the consequences of your actions. Before you make a decision, learn to think clearly whether the decision is good for you to do. Don’t just because you think it’s temporary and then you think you can ignore the aftermath. Especially if what you are dealing with is also human.

They have the same feelings as you. You want them to care about you as much as you care about them so be mature. Treat them well if you want to be treated well too. It’s not that because they’re doing it for your happiness that you can be careless with them. You can treat them however you want. It hurts a lot and it’s not fair to them.

Learn to be wiser in your attitude because it’s not just about you. If you’re angry because of the mess you made yourself instead of fixing the situation, you’re really being childish. You blame circumstances because the decisions you make end up making things difficult for yourself.

Learn to accept all the consequences for all the things you decide. If in the end the decision you take causes chaos or big problems for you, then learn to accept the situation and learn to adapt to the situation and try to fix the situation because from the start you were the one who made the decision.

Taking your anger out on other people who don’t know anything about the problems and mess you’ve created is not wise. Learn to accept that you can’t get everything you want. Learn to understand other , especially if that person means something to you. If they treat you well, it means you are valuable to them. Not that they accept then they will be fine.

Don’t assume especially after you’ve made a mistake and you’re not fixing the situation but blaming someone else for your own mistakes. Learn to be more open-minded and learn to lower your anger especially if you’re already involved in the mess you’re making. Learn to introspect and accept all the consequences of your decisions.

Sometimes doing that is not fun, it can be disgusting but like it or not, learn to accept that you do have to fix your mistakes. Learn to be responsible for all the decisions you make.

Don’t run away from your problems because once you do something like that, then every time you make a mistake, you will run away from that responsibility again.

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