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February 13, 2022

Use “I’m sorry” wisely

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Don’t easily say sorry if you don’t really want to apologize and come back again and again repeat the same mistakes. If you do that to your partner, even though your partner loves you very much, there will be times when your partner will be tired of all that stuff.

Learn to understand the meaning of “I’m sorry”. Don’t easily say “I’m sorry” if you’re going to repeat the same thing over and over again. If your partner loves you very much, they always try their best to love you but they also have their flaws and sometimes there are times when they can’t hold back themselves and be patient if you repeat the same mistakes.

If you keep playing with that “I’m sorry” and make it a habit and assume that your partner will always forgive you, believe me one day you will regret thinking that way. When they leave and you start questioning everything, trying to figure out why they left, you’re too late.

When they are still with you, you don’t want to cherish your time with them, don’t want to care with their feelings and try to understand them, you think that they will have no problem as long as you apologize and they forgive you.

When you’ve lost them, do you know how hard it is to get a second chance? How difficult is it to fix the situation and go back to how it used to be? Think before acting especially to those you love and love you sincerely.

Regret always comes later and sometimes that “I’m sorry” is no longer able to solve the problem. Don’t just think about yourself or think that you are always more right than your partner and think that they don’t understand anything.

Everyone makes mistakes but that doesn’t mean they are stupid and don’t want to learn from their mistakes. The best thing is to learn from the mistakes that have been made or if you feel you haven’t done anything wrong to your partner then communicate with your partner.

Ask them what went wrong and learn to be open with each other and find a solution to it all instead of blaming each other or with “I’m sorry” then it’s all over. Don’t make your partner sad especially if you love each other. “I’m sorry” is important but use it at the right time.

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