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March 22, 2022

Do we need to take revenge when someone hurts us?

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Someone just asked my opinion about revenge. She is upset and thinks it is necessary or not to take revenge on someone who has hurt and treated her badly.  I dunno, everyone has a different opinion. I asked her, what is the use of revenge? does she think, will she be happy if her revenge has been avenged?

Will that satisfaction be achieved after the revenge is avenged? She replied… idk.

I know how angry she is because of it all but is it necessary to do that?

I told her if she felt it was a good thing to do, then do it but no regrets. Then she asked me is karma real?

To me, karma is real. All that will not be answered overnight sometimes it takes a very long time. Maybe we will find out and maybe we won’t know.

How do we treat someone, one day, we will know what it feels like to be treated like that, it’s just that sometimes we don’t realize that we have treated other people like that. Sometimes we get angry or upset, but have we ever introspected ourselves, could we have behaved like that in the past? so we deserve to be treated like that.

I don’t know but for me, revenge doesn’t give me any advantage. Nor does it give me inner satisfaction or happiness. In the end it won’t change anything.

I just wish she would think everything carefully before she decide to do something. I don’t want her to regret just because she feel pissed off makes her regret his decision.

Sometimes … time will tell and show who is right and who is wrong. Why make complicated yourself just because of something that in the end will not bring you happiness. Life is already complicated, why make it much more complicated with revenge

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