Think about it for a moment, how easy is it for you to make a big decision in your life? Just because the situation is chaotic and then you think just because it’s the easiest way out it’s much better for you to make that decision than to try to think more, maybe there’s another more humane way out?

Before you make a decision, try to think about it from all sides. We don’t just live for today. Whatever we will do, the decisions we will take, everything has consequences.

If it turns out that the decision you made is wrong and it leads to chaos, don’t you know that it is the consequence of all your decisions? Want to run away from responsibility? Or try to ignore it and pretend nothing happened?

If it turns out that the situation has gone awry and you know that the decision you made was wrong, be responsible. I know to do that is not easy especially if we are young and we are stuck in a complicated and chaotic situation.

Don’t blame the situation because you like it or not, that mess, you’re the one who made it. Learn to accept that you did make mistakes. Running away from problems won’t solve anything. Trying to take the easiest way just because it’s the simplest is not necessarily wise.

Don’t make the same mistake for the second time if you want to fix the mess which you have made. Admit mistakes and learn to accept that you have to take responsibility for it.

Everything we decide, in the end there will be consequences, maybe not today, not tomorrow, maybe years later we will get the consequences. I believe that everything we do, in the end whether it’s good or bad, over time, it will all come back to us again.

I agree sometimes we need shortcuts and the easiest way but not necessarily that is the right decision to be taken. If that happens, try to stay calm and don’t be triggered, learn to think carefully and think more wisely. Don’t let us make the same mistakes again and make things even more complicated just because we’re already stressed and afraid of the mistakes we’ve made.