If you continue to be stubborn, you don’t want to listen to other people’s advice, how will you improve yourself? It’s not that if they give you advice then they’re definitely going to lead you into something bad. There are people who really care about you, they give you advice so that your life is better and so that your future is much better.

Learn to listen to them. Don’t be in a hurry to judge, let alone immediately accuse them for just lecturing you. Try to look much deeper, try to think clearly and digest their words.

Sometimes listening to their words is annoying but that doesn’t mean that everything they say is bad. It could be that they are sharing their experiences or may be their mistakes in the past.

They may share all that with you because they don’t want you to suffer the same mistakes. They’ve probably been through so much until they want you to never have to go through the same paths or the same mistakes they’ve been through in the past.

It’s just the way they make you uncomfortable and make you think they’re doing it, forbidding you to do it because they’re too much. You may think that they don’t love you to the point so they forbid you from doing everything you want to do.

Don’t be too quick to judge something, learn to be more patient and think more clearly when you face a situation. Learn to not easily triggered if there are people who share their experiences with you.

Learn to hold yourself back, control your emotion and learn to understand what they try to tell you, they don’t necessarily do it because they don’t like it, it could mean they do it because they love you too much.