They are silent not because they are doing drama. They’re just tired, fed up. They feel they have explained it many times but still ignored. Everything they said was just a passing wind.

When they show their attitude then make the others shocked and can’t accept it. Think that they are too much ?Why not introspect and look for the cause they act like that?

Assume that they have a problem. Is it true that they really act like that because they have a problem? Haven’t ever thought that maybe they act like that because there is a trigger?

If they weren’t the type to always act like that, why not introspect our self? could we be the cause? Could it be that they act like that because they are holding back their anger? Maybe they are silent because they don’t want to make drama.

It hurts every time someone accuses us of creating drama just because we’re holding back our anger. While they can continue to act carelessly and then make us have to continue to be patient with their treatment?

It’s so difficult to introspect, both hold back the emotions and try to understand each other.

Do we know the meaning of mutual? even if we know, do we really know clearly the meaning of mutual? or just knowing the meaning of the word without knowing how to apply it to ourselves.

Don’t treat other people badly if we don’t want to lose them, especially for those who mean a lot to us. Just because we are too comfortable with them makes us forget that they are human as well.

They also lowered their egos to understand us, so why don’t we also do the same, have mutual respect for each other. They are not always able to understand, have infinite patience. They also have emotions and anger.

Appreciate those who matter to us if we don’t want to lose them just because we are too comfortable and forget to treat them well. Because if they can’t hold it in anymore, they won’t give any more explanation when they leave and when that happens, all that’s left is regret.