Dr. L. Xochitl Vallejos

Powerful Quotes by Women of Color to Inspire our Daily Living.

Choose a Lover like This.

How to Know if you Should Go Full “No Contact” after a Breakup.

In times of Tragedy, please Spare Me your Thoughts & Prayers.

How to Maintain Healthy Boundaries when Struggling with Codependency.

10 Ways to Lose a Good Woman.

Yes, Children Should Consent—to Everything, including Posting about them on Social …

How to Silence the Haters when You’re trying to Manifest.

America, Meet your Dark Side.

3 Ways to Cope with People who are Seriously Selfish.

Predicting when our Lives will Change is as Simple (& as Hard) as This.

Giving Head: Why we should Learn to Love It. {Adult}

Resources for Well-Intentioned folks who want to Educate themselves about Racism.

10 Reasons to Date a Mindful Single Mom.

Love is a Lazy Sunday Morning.

This can Never happen Again.

No, You Didn’t “Create” your Own Trauma.

How to Heal your Inner Child.

Masculine Archetypes & their Shadow Sides: The Lover, the Addict, & the Imp…

Are you a Good Woman or a Nice Girl?

The types of Masculine Psyche: The Magician, Manipulator & Innocent.

Do Black Lives REALLY Matter?

Stop looking for “The One.”

The 4 Types of Masculine Psyche: How to Recognize a Warrior.

The 4 Types of Masculine Psyche: The King & his Shadow.

Anti-Vaxxers: From one Parent to Another.

Dear High School Seniors.

The Grown-A** Woman.

There’s no Greeting Card for the Moms who made us feel Not Good Enough.

Jimmy & Molly: Your Heart will Break Countless Times.

If You Love Her, Let Her be Free.

How to Effectively Deal with a Narcissist.

I Don’t Love you any Less.

The Rise of the Firebrand.

Nice Guys aren’t Good Men.

Be Glad they Cheated.

Go F*ck Yourself: The Magic of Masturbation. {Adult}

Ode to the Mavericks.

Self-Care for Women of Color Experiencing Emotional Battle Fatigue.

It’s Always been You.

Dear Academia, I’m Leaving You.

The Curse of being Single.

A Reminder of the Fierce Feminine Power, fueled by Love.

For the Fatherless Daughters.

5 Tips for Raising Socially Conscious Children.

It’s still Assault if they “Let you Do It.”

For the Star-Crossed Lovers who Almost Were.

We should all be sitting with Kaepernick.

To the Man who Ruined me.

An Open Letter to the Grown-Up Mean Girls.